Once you have made the commitment to Coaching, there are a few important things to keep in mind, which will help you get the most out of every meeting, reach your goals as quickly and easily as possible, and allow you to have fun in the process.
COME PREPARED
If you know what you want to accomplish during each session, you will get more out of it. You will probably have stories to tell from the previous week – tell them in such a way that you get to the ‘bottom line’ quickly and can learn from them – and quickly progress to the next level.
BE TRUE TO YOUR WORD
I will challenge you and make many requests of you. If you say ‘yes,’ then do it. Make it a habit to keep all of your promises to me, no matter what. If you have any uncertainty about whether or not you can commit yourself to my requests, please say ‘no’.Then we will find a compromise that you are willing to live with and complete. Coaching works best for those who keep their commitments.
BE FEARLESS
I am professionally bound to keep everything you say in the strictest confidence. Take advantage of that. You can tell me anything and everything, including the things that you are just barely ready to hear yourself. Do not hold back about your finances, your feelings, what you want from life in general, what you want from your personal relationships, what situations hurt you most, and what is just not working for you. By being completely open, you make it easier for me to help you sort things through and create a better life.
CHALLENGE ME
Let me know what parts of the Coaching process work best for you and what is least effective. If you need support from me all you have to do is ask.Remember, I am a pro, and I have never dealt with anyone exactly like you before. You are on a unique journey.Together, we will be learning new things.
BE A MODEL CLIENT
Show up exactly on time for all of your calls or meetings. Pay me on time, or ahead of time. Let me know how the coaching is helping you. Tell your friends what coaching is doing for you. It is important for you to honor your Coaching relationship and make it a priority. If you cannot do this with me, let me know and we will find a coach you can work with.
